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Born on St Patrick's Day: Happy 115th Mary

They say that its good luck to be Irish, and that the luckiest of all are those who are born on St Patrick's Day. No doubt this is what was said the day that my great grandmother was born. However, her life was not necessarily filled with the good luck that the superstition had predicted. As much as she had a hard life, her life was also an "ordinary" one of a young British immigrant to Canada. Despite that, the simple life she led in youth was filled with fun. She embrace the changing times, new found freedoms, and innovations. Its the heirlooms from that chapter of her life that fascinate me the most because they show aside to her that none of my relatives knew - a woman who was happy. So today, I am going to share the side of her that one of those heirlooms tells. I have a small black autograph book that was hers.  At almost 100 years old, the book binding has all but disintegrated yet the leather cover is in near pristine condition and the partially bound pages are al...

Brick Wall Strategies: Assumption Breaking

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The genealogical term "brick wall" is often used to describe challenging research questions which appear to have no answer. In some cases, our own assumptions create these brick walls. We make assumptions based on our existing knowledge because we believe that this will make our research easier (and often times we are right about that). However, in some cases these assumptions prevent us from finding the information that we are looking for. They cause us to narrow our scope so much so that we manufacture our own brick walls. In this post, I'm going to explain how reviewing and challenging an assumption can help us break down the brick wall.  For the past two years I have been working on the rather large and challenging project of naming every person in the old pictures that I inherited. The task itself has presented many challenges as my ancestors rarely recorded any information on the back of pictures, and when they did they often failed to include the names. The smaller...

Nature vs Nurture: What Kind of Parents were your Ancestors?

When I was growing up my mother used to tell me that "Life is like a lottery. We dont get to choose who we are born to". This sentiment has been true for as long as the concept of subjectively "good" and "bad" parents has existed. Phycologists have spent decades trying to figure out exactly what makes somebody a "good" parents and have went so far as to theorize that behaviours can be acquired either through nature or nurture.  When I reflect on my grandmother's life, I am taken aback by one thing that she told me when I was in my late teens - she didnt learn by example how to be a "good" mother, but rather by the absence of one. Her mother did not fit the mould of a stereotypical mother from the 1940's; instead she was more akin to someone trying to remain in the carefree 1920s.  Aside from her father, her face only lit up when she talked about one of her aunts. This particular aunt had no children but loved my grandmother as h...

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